When a couple decides to travel, it is a time for unwinding and bonding. Taking the time to separate from the every day routines and problems is good for most relationships. It is important that couples lay out some ground rules before dashing off on a trip togther. Even couples who have a long marriage bond need to have some guidelines to improve the quality of the trip.
If the couple traveling together are just two friends heading off together, the rules are still much the same. The primary difference is that the question of who pays for what needs to be addressed from a more detailed perspective. Unless one partner makes it clear that the cost does not need to be divided, plan on a 50/50 split.
For the married or committed couple, the traveling rules change only slightly from that of friends. Splitting the cost of the trip is not an issue because it is paid from shared funds. Instead of worrying about who will pay when or should a meal ticket be split, more effort should go into itinerary, the overall cost of the trip, and mode of transportation.
Choose the destination and purpose of the trip together.
Couples almost always travel to spend time together and enjoy some new experiences. This may mean an entirely new place to visit or an opportunity to spend more time enjoying or exploring a familiar place. It could be a romantic get away to a favorite or meaningful spot. The key is to make sure that both halves of the couple understand the why behind the where.
It is never good if she went for romance and shopping, and he went for golf and sleeping. Both of these goals can be attained, but probably not together. This needs to be worked out before the trip even gets to the financial stage. Often, the destination is dependent upon the purpose. It would be rare to go to the beach and not intend to partake of the sun and surf. A snow skiing resort would bring another obvious reason for choosing a given destination.
Work Out a Budget Both Partners Like.
Trips that run short on cash are not very much fun near the end. For that matter, it can make for an uncomfortable trip if you are worrying about money the entire time. Plan your trip within your means. A trip to Europe is not a good choice if you only have $500 to spend. Small budgets usually imply a trip of less distance and less duration. You can still accomplish many of the goals for traveling. You just have to plan a trip that fits the budget.
You also want to avoid having a great time on a trip and come home and file for bankruptcy. Well, that is, unless that was your plan. It still would not be a very good one. Keep traveling within your personal budget, as well as, establishing a traveling budget.
Pick the Mode of Travel.
You can go by car, train, jet, or ship. The trip can even combine several of these. If you are traveling a thousand miles to take a cruise, you will want to decide well ahead of time if you will drive or fly. You might even choose a bus, but not many couples will. A trip to Cancun will almost always require flying. Make sure that you and your partner are both comfortable with the mode of transportation.
Agree on Food and Lodging Needs.
As a couple, you need to layout plans that include what type of lodging is acceptable to both parties. Younger people tend to want cheap while older couples look for a little more luxury. The same is true for eating. Some couples will choose a cooler and sandwiches. Others will want a full service meal several times per day. This is simply something to consider within the realm of your likes and your budget.